Do you schedule time in to talk and see each other. It is amazing how different values and outlooks, interpersonal relationships can be from family to family. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world. The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. I am actually tired of the "excuse" that his work is so important or it's a calling. If you don't mind some slightly off-topic advice, I can assure you that you will meet plenty of other beautiful, interesting women going forward. I'd suggest taking issue with things that specifically bug you the most. Doctors are, for the most part, extremely responsible and determined. If your relationship is moving forward, or she suggests doing something more expensive, it is not inappropriate for her to help pay as well.
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Each to their own though. Don't wait for it to eventually fall apart or hope that she will change. Of course they do. This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. Her brain has been wired from birth by said cult. It is fundamental that we focus foremost on developing ourselves as suitably strong men. I'm engaged to a junior intern and we're supposed to get married soon. I love talking religion with him and I have never pressured him to change his habits or anything else about him. He sees all families being able to stay together. Communicate and get those answers, OP.
Take extra care to communicate your needs once a week- don't do it every day. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. Loneliness seems to be a part of being a wife of a doc in training, and at times all I can think of is simply getting over a day at a time. Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit. He sees around 50 patients a day and is always tired when gets home n wants peace and quiet. I too feel that I am becoming a mistress to his own career. What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path. I know people should not get married if they can't accept each other as they are. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands. If you are not creative just copy love poems from famous romantics.
We had lots of sex and fun. My family says I should leave him…. Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you. Would love to join. My husband is a medical student, so I have a few years until I'm a "doctor's wife. I respect what my husband does but I have nothing but my pets and a dusty Ivy Leaguedegree. He is married to his job right now.